A question for adult men, not kids please.?

I have been in and out of the man I loves life now for 3 and a half years. Slowly my heart has hardened to the games that guys play esspecially him. But after he wanted to go to the hot tubs, I met him there and he had told the guy behind the counter that it was "my turn to pay cuz he paid last time" then when we were in the tubs, I thought he would share the drinks as I offered mine, but he didnt. Then he came over and spent the night which was fine and we got into intimate stuff, but the next morning he took off early. I didnt even give him a hug because in my opinion he had acted like a selfish ******. Halloween night I sent him a text saying happy halloween and asked him if he wanted to come join me for drinks at my house and he said he was too drunk to drive and "I would want more from him than he had to give". I asked him what he meant by that and he said, `it wasnt a typo" . My last text to him said this, "I dont know where ur going with that and Theres alot I could say to that but its all been said before but if u cant see the loyal friend, beautiful heart and woman in me than its your loss". That was the last thing I said to him. My questions are, do u guys think I handled it well? and how long do u think he will take to respond?