Honestly being shy wouldnt stop a mature guy to ask me out if he realy likes me,dnt u think so?

Hahaha this so CHERRY ha ha. But seriously yes it is possible a guy is this shy maturity is in the eye of the beholder he is intellectually mature but not ually mature. For that to happen he needs progress with women simple as that. He needs to be rejected, and accepted in his apporach to women to much of the other and he cant ask you out. Too many guys lecturer and good job or not have been rejected so much they do not know how to ask a girl out they truly like but it is so easy for them to ask out a girl they do not because simply put they do not care about the result. This is what i try to tell my female friends as a 21 year old guy with a great job and decent looks that its not always about what appears to be right or wrong you have to find out the facts. The fact is this maybe a person who is rejected a bit because he maybe awkward around girls he likes. So my suggestion is get the friend out of the picture who is conveying messages between you two because if you two can not communicate now then why bother? Second Texts and calls do not matter to many females put an en emphasis on this. I once dated a girl who everytime we went out we had an amazing connection but because i did not know how often to text i texted too much and it was always never to be in control i just talk alot :p and she left me. Meanwhile in person i did the same but she and i got along amazing and now shes gone. Dont worry about texts or calls talk to him in person flirt have fun and in time he will build confidence through your interactions and he will make the move. Shy guys need to feel absolutely sure to make a move. Best of luck you sound really sweet :)